I dont want to be dark skinned?

i am Puerto Rican , Italian , Columbian , and Indian but i have dark skin. My mom is very light but my dad is kinda dark. I really hate being dark. It makes me sad. My moms family picks on me,people in school pick on me , my friends pick on me. Kids in my school ask what race i am and i literally get into arguments with people trying to convince them that i'm not black or Dominican. I am a rocker type chick. I like to rave , mosh , go to concerts and wild party's , listen to hard core music , techno , and dumb-step. But to alot of people think darker girls don't do those types of things making it harder for me to fit it. So when i'm with my friends i feel like an outcast because there all so light and im the only dark one. Not all of them are white (Caucasian) but there all light skinned It makes me cry because i feel like i don't fit it anywhere. I'm kinda a white person on the inside but people see a black person on the outside. Also i always feel like i could never attract my type of guy because im dark and it seems like all the guys i like are into white girls. I really don't know what to do. Is there anything i can do to make myself lighter. Do you have any advice for me at all. I feel pretty depressed about now.